Greener on the Other Side of the Fence – She Wants Bigger Breasts to Look and Feel Better
She doesn’t agree with her husband, who currently loves her breast size. In fact, as a 40-year-old mother of three, she wants a bigger bust line to rival that of younger girls. Her conditions are clear, though: she wants an affordable option that will not put her in debt.
Case #: 1341
Concern：
My husband loves my breasts; I hate them. I cannot stand how small they look. I notice teenage girls with larger breasts than myself, and it’s embarrassing! For a 40-year-old woman, I should not have these confidence issues, especially as a married mother with three kids. I want bigger boos but not a bigger debt that goes with them. What can I do to improve my bust line?
Discussion：
One of the perils of being a woman is struggling to feel confident with yourself. This is hard enough simply because of nature – every woman seems to want what she can’t have. But comparing yourself with younger girls and those in television and magazine ads makes self-love all but impossible.
Breast size can be particularly problematic. As already stated, women want what they can’t have, meaning those with smaller busts want bigger and vice versa. You’ll feel better once you do enhance your size, and the good news is that you can do so without dangerous cosmetic procedures.
Factors that Influence Breast Size
One of the keys in determining your breast shape is genetics. Not all women in a given family will wear the same bra size, but generally speaking a mother with large breasts will give birth to daughters who also have big busts. Ethnicity is another determinant. To illustrate, Asian women usually have smaller breasts than European women. Overall body shape also plays a role; larger women have bigger busts, while thinner women have smaller busts.
Other factors include nutrition and lifestyle, menstruation, pregnancy, and age. Some of these, like nutrition, can be altered with conscientious decisions. But you cannot change your age or genetic composition, meaning that breast size and shape are largely determined by nature.
Society’s Perception of Breasts
It’s no secret the female form receives attention on a daily basis. Women are individually ogled when they go to the simplest of places, whether the drug store or a restaurant, while females with large breasts are collectively considered inferior with regard to intelligence. On the other hand, big breasts are also believed to garner more male admiration.
Undue emphasis on breasts makes women feel they must constantly change their bodies in order to be attractive. Those that are perky and bouncy are believed beautiful; those that are slightly saggy and asymmetrical are not. The real goal, therefore, is to find happiness with what you have. If you need larger breasts in order to feel attractive, you should pursue that goal. But until you achieve the size you want, try to find other positive qualities in yourself. Do you like your legs, your hair or your eyes? If so, focus on these and learn to recognize your own beauty.
Better-Looking Breasts
You can make a real difference in the appearance of your breasts just by taking care of them. If you smoke, stop immediately; tobacco diminishes skin quality and can impact nipple shape and size. Also moisturize daily to reduce stretch marks and skin discoloration.
Equally important is bra size, and wearing the right bra can transform how you look in clothes. Get sized by a professional in a department store or specialty boutique to help project your assets to their fullest abilities. The right bra will also prevent breast tissue from migrating to other parts of the chest and provide adequate support so your shape is perfectly soft and feminine.
The Natural Approach to Size
Many women consider cosmetic procedures to help them achieve the breast shape they want. But natural approaches like specially-blended herbal formulas pose no unwanted side effects and will affordably amplify your current size. (SEE: Herbal Remedy for Natural Looking Bigger Breast) Ingredients like Blessed Thistle and Fennel seed balance your hormones and stimulate fatty tissue deposits to achieve the desired growth. In time, your confidence and bust size will be exactly where you want them.